cot antics

i have been non blogging bcos b is hard to get 2 slepp.  he is waking every 5-10 mins all evening after his bedtime feed, and we've been trying all sorts of tadtics and learning a lot. nothing helps, although if he spends time screaming he doesn't wake often - but then he's awake screaming.  we have decided to relax and concentrate on being really present with baby while we can - most people i spoke to at work about it said they didn't bother with strict routines, and nobody said they got it sussed by 4 months.  so he wakes up a lot - it's hardly naughtiness!  otherwise we are doing remarkably well:  there is a routine there already and baby feels happy and secure.  he is slooowly getting used to the cot.  and he is waking less in the night, maybe 3x.